How are we going to pay for college? That’s a popular question this time of year as parents hurry to complete their FASFA forms. For those who don’t know what the FASFA form is, it’s used by colleges to determine Federal Student Aid eligibility. I’ll have more on the form in a future post, but today I want to focus on parents that sabotage their own cash-flow and retirement plans in a desperate attempt to pay for college.
Let me begin by saying I’m a big fan of 529′s, TAP programs, coverdell IRA’s, and saving bonds to stash away money for your little Johnny and Mary. Unfortunately, even if you begin saving the day they’re born, there’s a slim chance that you’ll have enough to pay for 4 years of college. So what should you do to make up for the shortfall?
This is where I’ve seen parents make irrational decisions. We are constantly bombarded with data on the rising cost of tuition. I believe this causes parents to feel guilty about not being able to help out more. This leads to bad financial decisions. There are three ways I see parents damage their financial future.
- Taking loan or withdrawing fund from 401K/IRA
- Refinancing you home or getting a home equity loan
- Getting personal loan in your name
The number one rule to follow when deciding to pay for college…….never jeopardize your own cash-flow or retirement.
Your retirement comes first. If you withdraw from your retirement accounts you’ll never make it up in growth, dividends, interest, etc. Don’t kid yourself either, I’ve heard the “but I’m paying myself back” line in response to loans from retirement accounts plenty of times. I can prove that you will not come out ahead with that strategy.
Whether it’s a refinance, home equity or personal loans, being saddled with increased debt is going to delay retirement and/or reduce your standard of living. Typically the load of that debt stretches into the first years of retirement, increasing the chances that you’ll run out of money.
What if Johnny or Mary find that college is not for them after a year or two? You’ll have less retirement funds or more debt and nothing to show for it. So what do I usually recommend?
- Contribute to an education fund like the one mentioned above AFTER you contribute to your retirement accounts AND have little or no credit card debt
- Explain to your children that loans for college probably will be needed and they’ll be responsible
- Finally, after your children are out of college, you have minimal debt, are near or in retirement, and have continued to contribute to your retirement plan…..NOW you may be in a better position to help out
Just because I recommend you don’t raid the retirement account or increase your own debt doesn’t mean you still can’t help your children. I’m just saying do it when you’re in a better position.
The kids may have significant loans, but since your in such a good position (you’ve been working with J.H. White Financial for many years), that you can help out and pay their monthly loan. You also have to remember that they may be able to deduct up to $2500 in student loan interest, depending on income, as well.
Everyone wins! You have little or no debt, significant retirement savings, and have the ability to help your children. If you can help with a few or all the annual payments, your children can take the tax deduction, and put the savings toward retirement, a home, or whatever else they need as they begin to build a future.
This of course is what would happen in a perfect world, but regardless, your retirement and cash-flow must come first. You can’t, correct that, you shouldn’t take out loans for retirement! Using home equity and reverse mortgages for retirement should be the last resort, again good topics for my next post.
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